Thursday, April 23, 2009

Following up from yesterday's word...

Dallas Willard says,
“In solitude we confront our own soul with its obscure forces and conflicts that escape our attention when we are interacting with others."
On the lighter side, when hearing a sermon it is okay to focus on what is being said and who says it. Below is a little poem (not mine) that speaks to one who has added solitude and silence to his (or her) life:
The color of my pastor's eyes, 
In truth I can't define;
For when he prays he closes his,
When he preaches I close mine!

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Word Creation Wednesday

This week's word has to do with our tendency to avoid times of quiet and introspection...
"Diversionism" - The practice of constantly adding sound or activity to our lives (i.e. always turning on the radio in the car, occupying our quiet moments with the internet) as an attempt to avoid the conversation that goes on in our head during times of solitude and silence. Our world suffers from this condition without realizing it's devastating consequences. We become so occupied with things outside of us that we fail to give sufficient attention and thought to what is going on inside of us. The result is an entire population who never listen to their hearts long enough to wrestle with the larger questions of life. Forward momentum has a deafening effect on the voice of both the human soul and the Holy Spirit. The Spirit doesn't send e-mail or text messages. To hear it speak you must sit with it a while.

This week's sermon...again

Turns out there were no audio problems this week so here's the sermon from last Sunday.  I'm starting a new series called Disciplines for a Busy World.  The first focus is on keeping Sabbath. Kristine Haig writes,
“Keeping Sabbath is not about some sort of legalistic, moralistic ‘What do you do on Sunday’ question, but about finding enough quiet time to refresh our spirits and turn our hearts back to God. We’re sort of on the fast track to global, cosmic, economic burnout.  My sense is that our exhaustion is of the spirit, and this really is God’s way of drawing us back.”
So here it is...



Full outline and study guide can be found online here.

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

I am the richest of all men...


My youngest turned 9 this week.  My kid's birthdays always bring the nostalgic contemplation side out in me. Life seems to be zipping along and then all of the sudden the balloons and steamers kindle the fires of memory.  I am reminded with great joy and deep sorrow that one day they will grow up and leave me and start their own families...in their own houses...with some painfully inferior husband who isn't worthy to have jewels such as these in his life. Sometimes the fatherly nature of my thoughts is so predictable.    

People always say that life goes faster the older you get.  I'm not sure that it goes any faster, but you definitely grow in the understanding of what it is that is actually happening.  Your comprehension of life grows and it seems like it takes more of your time to just mentally take it all in.  The becomes most evident to me in the lives of my daughters.  Through them I see the life of a 15, 12, 10, and 9 year old through 41 year old eyes.  I remember when I was 15 and thought I knew everything but was terrified that maybe I didn't.  When I was 12 and was desperately concerned that my school mates like me.  When I was 10 and the big questions in life consisted of what was for dinner and what do I want for Christmas.  When I was nine and there was no place better than my dad's lap.  

But then you grow up.  You begin to see that at every stage of your life that your thinking is limited.  You realize that you never arrive, you continually grow, change, and deepen in your understanding of what is going on around you.  I think there comes a day, or maybe a number of days, where you make peace with this.  You realize that you won't achieve all of your dreams. You realize that it's okay that you don't.  Part of the process is the epiphany that some of your dreams would have destroyed you and others would have shaped you in a very different way. Life then becomes a process of loving what you have instead of longing for what you don't. Realizing that sometimes in our constant desire for more we cheapen and devalue what we have.  

One of my favorite things to say is "I am the richest of all men."  I know this is true.  I believe it...most of the time. I have everything that I could want.  I have a relationship with Jesus who is "making all things new".  I have an amazing wife who keeps me fresh and alive. I have four beautiful daughters who, if they could ever grasp even a tenth of how much I love them, would never have self-esteem issues. I have extended family and friends, a warm and solid house, a job where I get to invest in the lives of others.  What more could I want?  

Kid's birthdays are good for me.  They remind me that life is short...but sweet.  They point me to the gifts I have rather than to the gifts I don't.  It's a lesson that I seem to need to re-learn over and over.  But that's always the way it is with truth.

This week's sermon...

...had some audio difficulties so I'm posting one from 2008 on Matthew 20:1-16 - The Parable of the Workers in the Vineyard.  I called it "The Great Reversal".



Full outline and study guide can be found here.

Monday, April 20, 2009

Quote of the Week...

Here's a bit of a thinker for you...
"The real struggle is not between East and West, or capitalism and communism, but between education and propaganda."
~ Martin Buber

Sunday, April 19, 2009

Today's post...

The reality is that I have posted on this blog everyday since January 25th.  That's quite a streak for me and since I am either an all or nothing person I have realized that if I'm ever going to write on this blog I need to discipline myself to do it faithfully.  The problem is that nobody has something to say everyday.  It's just not feasible.  

I could tell you that someone gave us a fridge.  It was a true gift from God and our food is happily chilling as I write.  

I could also tell you that I preached today on incorporating the discipline of Sabbath.  And I am just going to veg with my wife and watch a movie.  

Other than that there is not much to say...I'll try again tomorrow...

Saturday, April 18, 2009

Music soothes the savage beast...

In spite of having appliance problems today (see the post below) there is one thing that soothes my refrigeratorless soul...the music put out by Red Mountain Church in Birmingham, Alabama. Recommending music is always risky.  People have varied tastes.  But I really like what these guys and gals do with old hymn lyrics.  My favorite album is called The Gadsby Project, and coming in close second is Help My Unbelief.  Find out all about them here...and enjoy a few of the samples below.

King of Saints



Come Boldly to the Throne of Grace



With Melting Heart and Weeping Eyes



Help My Unbelief



Enjoy!  

Well...it's not.

Know that old joke, "Is your refrigerator running?"

Well...it's not.  I thought the Diet Cokes were a bit warm.  Funny how you wake up with this perfect Saturday planned and then life happens.  So look out Craigslist, here I come...

Friday, April 17, 2009

Speed

This week-end I am starting a three part sermon series titled, "Disciplines for a Busy World." It's my attempt to remind myself that there are some counter-cultural practices that the church has utilized for centuries that help keep us focused on life through Jesus when the world all around us offers what appears to be life through everything else. There are a ton of things that I could cover, but I've chosen to limit the series to...
  • Sabbath
  • Solitude and Silence
  • Simplicity
Why only three?   Because we need to approach these ideas slowly.  More isn't always better. As I have been poking around in my own heart I have been reminded just how counter-cultural these disciplines are, even within what I would call the evangelical Christian sub-culture. 
Sabbath sets itself up against busyness, even busyness for good reasons.  It's not just going to church on Sunday, it's a conscious decision to let things stop for a day in order to remind ourselves that the success of the Universe (or our local Christian body or even my own spiritual life) has more to do with God than it does with me.  He asks us to stop in order to break our momentum.  To remind us that it's His work and not ours.  Solitude and Silence helps us to listen.  A strange idea for the iPod and internet generation.  And simplicity says that less is more.  Something I am reminded of when I see the fact that my stuff owns me instead of the other way around.

What motivated this series?  Primarily my own sense of lostness and desire to be refocused. Pastoring can be too busy at times and I find that I wrestle with what I call "people fatigue". I think that I am not alone in this.  While Jesus calls us to open up our hearts to people we are often so busy that we just don't want to surrender to that call.  Of course, there's always this option...
Are you there, God? It's me, the Internet.

Prayer has gone digital with help from a new web service that allows people to outsource their holy communication to a computer. On Information Age Prayer, the faithful simply choose their preferred passages and a text-to-speech synthesizer gives voice to them at regular intervals, for a nominal fee.

Available e-prayers include Our Father, for Christians, the Fajr, for Muslims and, for the agnostic, a prayer for financial health — which ironically will set users back about $53 annually. "I don't make any particular claims about efficacy, but I do believe that God is omniscient and He will hear (the prayers)," says creator James Mcarlos, who describes himself as spiritual but not religious. "Whether He listens or not is really a reflection of the subscriber."

The 23-year-old Bostonian says he designed the pay-per-prayer site for people like himself "who don't have time to put in the effort they'd like, to pray." (Read more at Digital Prayers)
As it says in the video below, we are living in exponential times.  Life is moving faster than ever before.  But honesty calls us to admit that just because it's faster doesn't mean it's better - especially when it comes to our spiritual life.


Thursday, April 16, 2009

A Beautiful Letdown

Okay, I admit it. My youth is over. And in my adult life I often look at the youth of today's world with an air of condescension. They think they are smarter than they are. What do they know about life in the real world? All the same things that adults said about me when I was a teen-ager too.  And then I come across some lyrics from the band Switchfoot.  Some lyrics that let me know there are some of the younger generation who are getting the profound nature of what the church is...and what it should be.
We are a beautiful letdown, Painfully uncool.
The church of the dropouts, the losers, the sinners, the failures and the fools.
Oh what a beautiful let down, are we salt in the wound,
Let us sing the one true tune...
The church is never what you expect it to be.  You will always be let down, initially.  But when you see beyond our expectations for church, when you catch a glimpse of what God intends, of what God welcomes, the beauty is almost overwhelming.  It's those glimpses that keep me going.  The hope of what God is doing in spite of what we are doing.  He has so much more going on.  We get so sidetracked on our own agendas for what both we and the world need. Let's begin to call it what it is.  A group of sinners clinging to the hope that in Jesus God is doing something amazing. Something beyond us. Something that the world desperately needs.  Let's begin to see the beautiful in the let down.

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Word Creation Wednesday

"Word Creation Wednesday", the weekly post where I try to create a new word based on my experiences of the past week, has been a challenging, yet enjoyable discipline here at The Journey...  It's always fun for me to sift through the mental sludge of the past week and try to come up with something that I feel is worth saying.  Here's this week's word...
"Complexification" - The tendency to make simple things more complicated than they really are.  One good example would be the creation of this word itself.  The most dangerous aspect of this is in regard to spiritual matters, where the need to understand everything before doing anything often causes us to sink into either paralysis or hopelessness.  Jesus is relegated to a nice teacher who had some good ideas or a revolutionary who leads us places that we are too scared to go.  In between those two there is a Jesus who teaches us where we are going and walks with us as we go there - a Jesus who seeks little children willing to follow.
This tendency is amplified by speed and stress (which are often so tightly interwoven they are hard to separate).  If your life is moving at 90 miles an hour it becomes easy to overlook the simple and assume complexity.  If you are under stress from people's (or your own) unrealistic expectations you will assume that there is always more to what you see than merely what you see.  (It really can't be as simple as just loving God and loving those around you, can it?)  There are beacons of light in our world, however, who remind us that the goal is more about who we are becoming than in full understanding of how that becoming takes place. Mother Teresa's quote comes to mind...
"We can do no great things alone.  We can only do small things with great love."  
You defeat complexification by slowing down and disciplining yourself to look for what God is saying to you in the quiet.  Len Hjalmarson (who writes a great blog, by the way) quotes someone I highly respect here...
“God’s dream for radical newness will require discipline. Not discipline connected to punishment or shame, but discipline that roots us in Christ, deepening our connection to God and one another. This rootedness will come from having consistent, ordered ways in which we remain open to Grace, and they will be unique to each one of us. Grace constantly seeks entrance into our souls in order to effect change, but Grace will never force her way in. Discipline is the means by which we open ourselves to the sort of radical change that has always been God’s intention for us.” 
--Gordon Cosby
Remaining open to Grace...that's a worthy goal.  It destroys complexification. But you never accomplish it in a hurry.

This week's sermon...

What do you do with an empty tomb?

The Hole in Our Gospel...

I just finished reading The Hole in Our Gospel by World Vision CEO Richard Stearns.  Stearns tells a powerful and compelling story of the events that lead him from being the President and CEO of the Lennox China Company to his current role at World Vision.  But it's about more than just his transition.  Stearns spends the first third of the book skillfully interweaving his own story with the story of people in need from all over the world.  The middle section gives one of the best summaries I have ever read about the scope of world need as well as some of the good news of what is currently happening to address that need.  In the final section of the book he takes a hard look at the church of Jesus Christ, calling us to begin to focus on taking action to address the need in our world.  

What do I think of the book?  This is the point where I should put together some eloquent phrases to tantalize your literary taste buds - a time to create in you a hunger to read the book. But instead of doing that let me just say this.  Everyone I know who calls themselves a follower of Jesus needs to read this book.  Several times.  And not read it as a way to feel more spiritual, but as truth and challenge to be integrated into life.  Stearns is hard on the North American church...but with good reason.  He believes that Jesus has called us to love the poor and needy, a claim that is hard to deny.  He has added fuel to mental fires that have been burning in my head for the past several years.  While I can't say I always liked what he writes, I can say that I think he is right.

You should read this book.  

It's that important.

Monday, April 13, 2009

Quote of the Week...

This week's quote is my most favorite poem of all time...and as I write that I admit that I am prone to hyperbole. But the issue is not whether this poem is my actual favorite or not, the issue is that Meinke says something worth hearing.

SONNET ON THE DEATH OF THE MAN WHO INVENTED PLASTIC ROSES
by: Peter Meinke

The man who invented the plastic rose is dead.

Behold his mark: his undying flawless blossoms never close but guard his grave unbending through the dark.

He understood neither beauty nor flowers, which catch our hearts in nets as soft as sky and bind us with a thread of fragile hours: flowers are beautiful because they die.

Beauty without the perishable pulse is dry and sterile, an abandoned stage with false forests.

But the results support this man's invention; he knew his age:

A vision of our tearless time discloses artificial men sniffing plastic roses.

Sunday, April 12, 2009

Easter Means Good News

We often live in the past. We allow things that have happened to shape our lives to the degree that God’s future for us is obscured by our past. In John 20 we see Mary Magdalene, so hurt by the loss of Jesus that when He reappears she clings to Him. She longs for things to be as they were. But Jesus realizes that the resurrection means that things will never again be as they were. In fact, when the truth and power of the resurrection sinks in, the followers of Jesus will be thrilled that the past is just that – past.

Fred Craddock writes,
"...even for disciples like Mary, Easter does not return her and Jesus to the past; Easter opens up a new future. The earthly ministry is over; now the ministry of the exalted, glorified, ever-abiding Christ begins. “Nevertheless I tell you the truth: it is to your advantage that I go away, for if I do not go away, the Advocate will not come to you’ (16:7). In fact, the one who believes will do even greater works than Jesus did, ‘because I am going to the Father’ (14:12). Therefore, Jesus says to Mary Magdalene, ‘Do not hold on to me’ (v. 17). Rather, she is to go and announce his resurrection and his ascension to the presence of God, from whose presence the Holy Spirit will come to lead, comfort, and empower the church."
The resurrection says to us, “The old is gone, the new is come.” From now on our faith builds on the past but looks to the future. God is building a Kingdom. The resurrection proves that what He started He can complete.

Saturday, April 11, 2009

Guatemala Update...

Another great entry from Wes about our "Coffee Trip" to Guatemala.  If he ever sells the Blue Moose then maybe he should take up writing.  He wraps together the Guatemalan Civil War and the current state of the coffee business in an amazing post.  You can read it here.

Friday, April 10, 2009

It's Arrived!

Welcome to the first post generated from my new MacBook.  The old Dell died and Angela decided to buy me something a bit more durable and higher end.  We ordered it on Monday and it showed up at my doorstep late yesterday afternoon.  I must say that so far I like it very much.  A bit of a challenge to get all my old stuff onto this one.  (Google can teach you everything you need to know.)  But now it's here and I am happy to have it.    

Wednesday, April 08, 2009

What happens...

...when we have a decision to make? 

One of the worst assumptions that we can make is that we are the ones who best know what we need. We cringe at the idea of someone else imposing what they think is best for us on our lives. We want to be the masters of our fate.  The irony is that we pursue this ideal of self-determination thinking that it leads to freedom.  The truth is in actuality that it begins to enslave us to the whims of the next thing that comes down the pike.  

In all of the discussion about the definition of marriage one of the key arguments is that party A has no right to impose their definition on party B.  Yet once the assumption that individual ideas and rights take precedence over an outside standard, the floodgates are opened.  If we really want to direct our own lives our own way, then we have to give others the same courtesy. 

The issue always comes down to whose "standard" are we to follow.  I get the concern.  People have manipulated "truth" for centuries.  The church has done this repeatedly.  But the church's mistakes do not negate the fact that there is a standard of right and wrong.  (Just because people eat junk food doesn't mean that eating is a bad thing.)  And when we delegate that standard to the feelings and perspectives of the individual we open the door to a room full of cans of worms...

Just a couple of weeks ago an Op-Ed piece in the Ottawa Citizen reflected this very fact.
"Looks like a historic legal battle is shaping up over polygamy, the outcome of which will surely be determined by the Supreme Court of Canada. I understand why, for political reasons, the government feels compelled to fight polygamy tooth and nail, but I suspect the government will lose. The polygamists have what seems to be an unassailable constitutional position. If polygamy is an expression of their religion, and if the participants are all consenting adults, then I don't see how the state can say no." (Read the rest here.)
People may not want you to impose a standard on them.  I get that. Even by writing this I am expressing that I don't want current society to tell me that there is no moral standard beyond the individual's own conscience.  My point is this - to deny that there is a standard and to cut off discussions about what that might be and how we discern it leads us down a path we don't want to go.  Once you lose the idea that truth is something outside of us and replace it with personal "truth" you may find that you are getting more than you bargained for.

It all starts with accepting the fact that we may not be the ones who best know what we need.

Forgiveness

There's something powerful about it.



See the details of the incident at my earlier post here.